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Magical Manifestation

The 5 Mistakes of Manifestation (and how to avoid them)

Michelle Bellamy

Manifestation is the act of making clear,    visible, tangible or real.

Manifestation is using the Law of Attraction and your Will to bring something into your reality. It could be money, the right people, the right situation, the right house, health or whatever you feel an emotional connection to. 

Some people are not sure what manifestation is but have heard of the Law of Attraction and use positive affirmations and visualizations to get what they want. Some of you may roll up your sleeves and write out your goals. You might have a dream board (me too). You might even begin to take the action steps needed to get to where your goals are leading. You may be on your way but are not really feeling good about your results or how long it is taking. 

I would love to share my experiences with you to help you avoid some of the manifesting mistakes I have encountered on my way to becoming an epic manifestor. I am absolutely passionate about this topic and I LOVE to help others!!

1. Your affirmations must always be stated in the POSITIVE and in the NOW moment.

Wrong: I don't want stress in my life

Wrong: I want peace in my life

Right: I have peace in my life

If you can't figure out how to say it the Right way, don't worry, I have tips for that in my FREE video. I GET IT!!! I struggled with this too!

2. Your affirmations and visualizations are NOT ALWAYS ENOUGH.

Every morning before you get out of bed you say your affirmation, "I have peace in my life", but as soon as stress meets you (which it will) you fall into it and doubt this whole "manifestation thing". It just doesn't work! There is a reality to deal with! Uh-hem, it actually does work. I have story after story to tell you that I still can't quite believe myself!

So, you did your morning meditation, you said your affirmation and then some jerk sees you waiting for that last parking spot in front of the store with your sick baby in the back seat crying. 

 

He looks you right in the eye and swipes it from you to go get his latte. In the meantime, you have to park far away and remove your sick child from the warm car and walk out in the cold and rain with her to get to the store.

You could have chosen peace over stress in that moment. You always have a choice. You are an active and vital participant in creating your reality. You can't just say it and then think it will happen. (Pro-level manifestors can actually achieve this but it takes a huge paradigm shift, rock solid belief and congruent actions. I will share my experiences in the FREE training with you!)

3. Getting too SPECIFIC can sometimes be a huge block to your manifesting.

Sometimes getting too specific is the biggest mistake you can make, we can limit ourselves. Our ideas and plans are small and limited compared to the truth of what is actually possible. 


4 years ago I wanted to move to horse property. I wanted at least an acre, I wanted it to not cost more than I was currently paying, I wanted a claw foot bath tub and I really, really wanted to live on a lake. I did my work. I wrote it all out. I could not get myself to write down the lake part. It just wasn't possible. I knew we had to live in a radius to my husband's business and there were no lakes in that area. The only lakes around were either too far away or way too expensive. I left it off. I meditated and heard, "No! You are limiting yourself, you can live near water!!" I added it to my manifestation. If I hadn't listened to that guidance, let reality go and trust I would have never have ended up living on a lake front property near my husband's business. This is one of the most amazing manifestation stories and you have not heard a fraction of it!!

4.   NOT RECOGNIZING that your manifestation has showed up or pushing it away because it didn’t fit with your plan. So maybe you used a broad stroke manifestation approach but mentally you still are in a loop of what it should look like. When it shows up you miss it completely.

Another story; I could have completely missed this manifestation. I wanted to raise money quick for a vacation/retirement property. I had great mentors that advised me to use the broad stroke method. I was thinking it would show up in my teaching and healing work, but it didn't. I was encouraged to go back to the corporate world by a friend. I could have totally laughed it off. It was SO off the path I was on. But I had confirmations that it was the right path. So I went for it. 17 months later, I closed escrow. I could have totally missed that, right?? I learned tons from that experience, that I am now teaching to students and clients, it was NOT a cake walk!! BUT, I did call it in, I did manifest it and the property AND learned SO MUCH to share with you now!

5.  You receive the GUIDANCE you need on your path to manifestation but you are:

a) distracted by other things that you think take priority (avoidance).

 
          Magic is Something YOU Make!!

         Magic is Something YOU Make!!

b) you have a fear or belief blocking you from seeing or following your manifestation when it shows up

c) You make excuses as to why you cannot possibly follow that guidance (time and money are usually at the top of this list)

d) You resonate with guidance, feel it in your bones, get signs and synchronicity as confirmation but somehow still push it away and kind of forget about it all the while continuing to complain and focus on your current situation as you trudge through it.

Don't feel bad, we all go through this...me too! Let me show you in my FREE video how to navigate this one. If you have the calling and the guidance but fear or something else is stopping you, you are the ideal person to benefit from what I have already learned!!

Boundaries and the Body

Michelle Bellamy

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We have been dealing with a whopper of REtrograde Planets one of which has been Mars.  We are RE-looking at how we react instead of respond, what actions we jump into especially if it is explaining, defending or projecting. This Reaction/Action merry-go-round is teaching us that as soon as we feel something is off, it probably is and we should speak gently and kindly. This is a boundary. It is a boundary you have with yourself. You do not want to move forward from this point feeling one energy coming towards and hearing words that say another message. When this happens, the person you are talking to is RE-acting instead of responding to the energy they are sensing within you or within themselves. 

We must consistently and continually bring ourselves back to our core of truth and out of reaction. Boundaries showed up in at least one energy wave with parents and/or children.  The ripple effect of our relationships with parents/children goes out into relationships with bosses, friends and lovers, if you thought you may have steered clear of it...you probably cannot, haven't and furthermore should not.

We are always recreating our original wound from a parent or ancestral time line with new relationships to heal the wound and empower and love ourselves more.  Along with these very emotional issues I have seen a multitude of physical issues.  Many involving the skin, mucous membranes, digestion and lungs. These are all soft and sensitive parts of our body that are a boundary for our bodies.  The skin is the biggest organ and if it has become infected or hurt, that is a skin boundary issue. In our lungs and digestion we sort out the harmful from the beneficial with many corresponding issues. If we ate something bad our stomach lets us know and we have a resulting correction to our system that can be unpleasant. Emotionally, we simply may not be able to digest all that is occurring in our lives, with our loved ones and ourselves. Our lung processes incoming toxins as well as grief, the body uses phlegm, coughing, sneezing, crying, laughing and more to clear the lungs of foreign bodies or grief. 

Sound familiar? As we try and RE-live our original emotional wounds in current time to heal them, old physical pain may be brought up to uncover the energetic and emotional origins and heal it.  From my experience with clients, friends and family over this past month, the doctors haven't got a clue, as with most energetic and emotional symptoms.  We resist these painful physical states, and what we resist persists.  I am often asked about the physical states and what needs to be physically done, but what I "get" intuitively is mostly that an energetic or emotional issue needs to be healed.  Remember nothing physical manifests without being pure energy first. Energy is the blue print, so it makes sense to go back to that foundation to heal anything physical. 

Even Dr. Oz would agree!!  "We're beginning now to understand things that we know in our hearts are true but we could never measure. As we get better at understanding how little we know about the body, we begin to realize that the next big frontier in medicine is energy medicine. It's not the mechanistic part of the joints moving. It's not the chemistry of our body. It's understanding for the first time how energy influences how we feel." Dr. Oz.

More on boundaries....  

If you are angry and resentful at someone because they have violated your boundaries or are not taking responsibility and expecting you to here is what you can do; 

Stand in your power, no one can do anything to you, it is always your choice to give your time and energy away, that is YOUR boundary. 

Maintain a healthy energy field, remain centered and clear.

Keeping ourselves, clean, clear, full of love and power is the most healing thing we can do for ourselves and for others.  By harmonic resonance others will feel your uplifting energy and themselves could be uplifted by it, if that is what they choose. 

During this time of reaction/action we may find that relationships and people fall away or move into the background.  If we are not in reaction, it all just feels natural like the way a river flows and breaks into streams.  We all just have our own business and purpose to attend to and if we are in our truth and power we will know that we have to be focused and centered to thrive.  If we are in reaction, these endings could be really dramatic or if the other party is in reaction it will be also and you need to hold clear boundaries and loving compassion. There could be a sudden deep healing in the relationship or an end.  Or an end to the way that relationship operated and a new beautiful relationship with the same person.  The choice is yours and theirs, independently of each other.  What will you choose?  Happiness is an inside job.

Be Well,

Willow Tucker

www.WillowandtheWand.com